A disagreement is about learning more about yourself and your partner. It is not about winning.
This is God’s war, not yours.
As social beings we need to feel wanted and valued and being rejected or feeling rejected destabilizes our need to belong, not only wounding us emotionally but unsettling us physically and even spiritually. With such a strong emotion being a constant feature of adulthood, it is critical that we find ways to deal with the
“Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth iniquity, and passeth by the transgression of the remnant of his heritage? He retaineth not his anger for ever, because he delighteth in mercy.” Micah 7: 18. The story is told of a woman who had reportedly had visions of Jesus. The local elder heard of